With social networks like Twitter, Facebook, Weibo and Tumblr, updates are getting to you guys in bits and pieces. But at the end of the day, it still feels good to be able to sit down and write something proper, in full. Sometimes, there are just so many things in my mind that i don't know where to begin. It has been a long while, :)
Being a silent observer, it's good to be able to silently observe your surroundings, the people around you, the things around you. Take yourself out of it and look around, perhaps you will learn even more than you ever know. You will be able to cherish the people and things around you more. It's life. Unfair, and cruel. But heartwarming.
The ties between people, and things, has came to my attention. The relationship between people is a huge and vast subject. it can mean BGR, it can be Friendships, relationships with family members and the list goes on. It's better to build up on your friendship now. Never get too attached to anyone because attachments leads to expectations and expectations leads to disappointments.
Friendships, what exactly is it ?
I once came along a quote which is quite meaningful to me. "True friends don't walk behind us. Neither do they walk infront of us. But they walk beside us and support us in every step we take." Sometimes, friends are the pillars of strength you have, the support you need to conquer or overcome a problem. A true friend sees the good in everything you do and brings out the best in the worst of things. Friendship isn't all about whom you have known the longest, it's about who came, and never left you side, and has been always there for you, moral of the story: cherish your friends. A true friend is someone who can see the good in me easily when I am desperately trying to find them.
It's funny, it's weird, it's amazing. what you see, what you find, what you observe. You see a bit of you in people, you see things you love, you see things that scare you, it makes you grow. I guess i've always liked to put myself in that position. Perhaps that's why I prefer writing to speaking too much. because words sometimes.. just sometimes, can do so much harm. This isn't a perfect world, and people do get hurt. I smile when i feel like crying, and i act like I am okay.
A quote by Helen Keller: "The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched, they must be felt with the heart." Sometimes, instead of using actions and words to expresses your gratitude or love for someone or something, use your heart instead.
当一位冷漠的人，是一件很烦恼的事。这可以带给你幸福，也会带给你悲伤。